Life on life’s terms means just staying present. In the moment. Connecting with your breath, your senses, your body. Breathing. Then, praying (or whatever it is you do to connect to your Inner Wisdom or your Highest Self) and doing the next right thing. And you can start loving yourself right now, just the way you are. Consider the lilies of the field… You may have to do it a hundred, even a thousand times a day–I know I do. But that’s the way it works!